We have been in an era (though I feel we are leaving now) where the definitions of words don’t match what is being labeled.

We point to hallow souls calling them leaders and good role models. Having a pleasant appearance and having all the right words to say has been considered being of good character.

Aren’t we done falling for the illusions yet? We’ve been played by the overlords to further their game. If you watch the worlds events without precept or need for it to be anything other than what it is, you will see the man behind the curtain creating the chaos. It’s to their advantage! It’s not one guy, it’s been an entire lineage of people, not from any one political party.

Alright so, we’re just “little ol’ us” and how can we ever regain control over our lives and see people for who they really are, right?

Responsibility.

responsible(adj.)

“accountable for one’s actions, answerable” to another, for an act performed or its consequences, 1640s, from obsolete French responsible (13c., Modern French responsable, as if from Latin *responsabilis), from Latin respons-, past-participle stem of respondere “respond, answer to, promise in return,” from re- “back” (see re-) + spondere “to pledge” (see sponsor (n.)).

The meaning “reliable, trustworthy” is from 1690s. It retains the sense of “obligation” in the Latin verb. Related: Responsibly. (etymonline.com)

Accountable for one’s actions, Reliable and trustworthy.
That’s the ticket right there. This is one thing that I expect from anyone who thinks they have a right to be within my inner circle. if you’re not personally accountable, we won’t get beyond the weather.

Think about it… our justice system rules in the favor of who has the most expensive lawyer.
I was once personally told by health and human services that, “unless your child and is beaten and bloody, authorities will do nothing…”
If you try and hold someone accountable for their cruel behaviour, they blame you for their issues!

Tell me you haven’t experienced this too!? How many people are personally accountable? For their behavior, their words, their actions— for themselves? How many? It is the number one reason why I don’t have many people close to me. I desire and deserve to have people around me who aren’t afraid to hold themselves accountable, who look within themselves, consider their motives… This used to be common, this used to be the definition of responsible and responsibility. Not the aesthetic of responsible. Wax fruit looks good but you wouldn’t eat it. Then why do we believe the lie when it comes to people? We’re not seeing them, we’re only seeing the storefront.

I know the one thing that held me back from seeing people for who they really were was the pain of seeing them for who they were. The comfortable lie was less painful for a long time, until the pain of their erratic and irrational behaviour got to be too much.

People run to avoid feeling pain but running from pain is painful too. Pain never gets ghosted or lost somehow, it’s ever present until you face it. Pain is humanity’s finest teacher. It is evident in the times we are in now. Do you earnestly believe we got here via the misgivings of one political party or one leader? That’s crazy talk. Right now we are living in a time where we are reaping what we’ve sown. We’re reaping our irresponsibility for not being accountable for our world; our countries, ourselves, our health, our children— everything. And it took pain to shake some of us and awaken to what has really been going on for centuries. Now what?

Face it. Be responsible. Be of good character, trustworthy, true and reliable. Be that because it’s right. Be that because you want to actually be who maybe you’ve pretended to be in the past. No one else is responsible for the pitfalls in your life, you are, you’re reaping what you’ve sown. Wish someone ill health, you’ll get it. Blame someone for your problems, you’ll have more problems to deal with. It’s madness to think anyone has the kind of power of you. The only power they have over you is the power you have given them. That’s called living rent free in your heart and mind. Evict them! Take control of yourself and your life but trust that Spirit will bring about whatever is meant for you.

Life really is beautiful. It is. Amidst the rubble, the challenges, entities pulling on your attention from every direction, life is still beautiful because if you know who you are, nothing disturbs you to your core. That. That right there will rattle the cage of someone who is disturbed, they’ll become furious that you’re not as disturbed as they are. Showing that you care doesn’t mean being loud, incessant and angry. I care about what is happening in the world, I’m just handling it differently. When there’s a fire in the building, running and shoving creates chaos to an already scary situation. I’m not running or shoving. I’m peacefully moving through the blaze well aware of where it is coming from and how to put it out.

This is my path. I don’t need anyone to agree in order to make it right, it’s the path that has been illuminated for me. If you desire to have a gentler, more loving life stick around…

Blessing xx