Life after death

We all die many times

  • New Years

    New Year new me? Nahhhh….. I’m not gonna pull that prank on myself. But I am going to set some goals for the year— which is something I do regularly anyhow. I like to ask myself those really challenging questions like; what do I really want to do? What do I want to see happen Read more

  • The lens of love

    I’ve arrived at a place in my life where outcomes don’t need to go the way I needed them to anymore. People don’t need to act or respond the way that I had needed them to anymore either. I just want to Be and do what I came here to be and do whatever it Read more

  • Is it love?

    Is love, love if it doesn’t show up? Is it love if it doesn’t encourage? Is it love if it has parameters with which it is acceptable to identify with? Is it love if it makes fun?Is it love if it isn’t accommodating? Patient?Understanding?Listens? What about makes excuses? Doesn’t respect boundaries or wishes??? Is it Read more

  • Snow Day

    Our world makes the most sense when we don’t push against nature. The fact that as a race we do, explains why the world at large is in the state that it is. I didn’t wake up this morning look outside and think to myself, “It’s a good day for watermelon…” whilst looking at the Read more

  • What failure isn’t

    Many of us grew up within family structures that had hard outlines ideals that made up what we came to know as right and wrong. Now, I’m not talking about the “common sense” right and wrong but right and wrong as concerns failure and success, specifically. Go to college; get a 4 year+ degree, intern/get Read more

  • What’s the point anyway?

    I’ll preface this post by saying that I don’t have all the answers. I don’t believe that we ever can or will. Contrary to our perception, life is infinite. After studying and wholeheartedly partaking in various religions and spiritual modalities, I have come to the conclusion that we don’t die. Not the way we think Read more

  • The gravity of love

    Parenting has taught me most of the important things I’ve come to know. Special needs parenting has been the extra icing on the cake AND the after-dinner mint. In every way imaginable, in all of the places I didn’t think I could, I did. In every way imaginable they said we couldn’t, we did. In Read more

  • You changed

    “You’ve changed.”Has anyone ever said that to you, almost as a dig? But you know the changes you made were the right ones because you felt better or your life was getting better in some way? It’s strange isn’t it? How every person knows a different *you* from the next. I read a quote the Read more

  • That place

    Life sure is strange, isn’t it? We’re born into families that are made normal to us through continual exposure, then when we set out into the world, we meet others who were raised completely differently. That doesn’t make it wrong, just different. How we were raised has such a tremendous impact on how we manage Read more